uhh yes please
I HATE MY LIFE
For whatever reason, I feel the need to preface this with “no offense intended” even though I’m about to pay you a massive compliment. I do not understand why. But still.
I just don’t understand. Certainly you can have any guy you want. (Or girl, for that matter.) There’s just no way people are that shallow. Right?
I have man-repellent AKA a kid. It doesn’t give me a lot of time to go out and meet guys and most of the guys I do know are my friends, so bleeeeeh. And everyone lives far away
Okay, I sort of understand the first and last things. My own personal choices disagree with that second one there, but hey, to each his or her own, right?
I suppose it’s just that you’re another in a long list of people who I consider attractive who appear to have low self-esteem. It just doesn’t compute to me.
…thinking about it, never mind. Dahlia should not count as man-repellent, because she is adorable. Any guy who is scared off by her is…well, a goddamn creep and not worth anyone’s time.
Heh I actually like myself a lot more than I used to when I was younger. TJAProjects has helped with my self-esteem.
I’m also very wary of seeing anyone because I do have a child and I don’t want to bring men in and out of my daughter’s life. She has a good relationship with her dad and at such a young age I want her to bond with him. I’m young and the guys I am interested in would be around my age, so a lot of them don’t like kids or want the extra baggage of a kid around. When you date a single parent, you end up with a package instead of one person.
So, I’m cautious and men my age don’t usually enjoy the company of kids or want the baggage so I’m just kinda like “ehhh”. I do miss the company though. But hey, that’s what friends are for I guess.
I can understand that. I’m wary about when, if, and how I’d start dating again once my divorce is finalized in the next year or so. (And on an unrelated note, it is exhilarating to have cut ties with Facebook, and as such be able to say that openly.) I don’t want to confuse Irene before she’s old enough. Not that I’ll really have to worry about that.
But I mean, hell, there’s something to be said for just no-strings-attached sex. It cools off the nerves, and there’s no “package deal” to be had. Certainly worth the cost of a babysitter or a trip to Grandma’s house. Again, my opinions are…well, does “exceedingly liberal” work here?
Cougar, can I call you a manho, and you understand that i am 100 percent kidding?
Would it bother you at all if I said that that didn’t bother me in the slightest?
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